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Lala I feel for your situation and understand
very well what hardship means however if I may be blunt you really need to do some deep soul searching to find your way. Just today you have told us how you feel you spent your twenties and thirties and so many times you have told us what you really want to do and each time it is something different. At this point in time you still really do not know, your words here over countless times show this is so.
09/4, 10:30:58

I am with you babe!
taningski WOAH. Keanu Reeves just turned 46. I do solemnly swear that he will forever be my one and only Showbiz Love. LOL http://bit.ly/aTSyvH 30 minutes ago via web
09/4, 10:29:44

banckruptcy
yu need to pay $1500.
sht I thought in doing that
I so fck up
09/4, 10:29:20

Lala
Do they allow you to declare taxes on bankruptcy? And my sister just went to one and she said they charge around 1500 which in my mind I could put on my bills. Plus I don't have that kind of money.

Re: keep your goals to yourself
I know that's supposed to be true but I have a hard time doing that. I should keep it secret, though.
09/4, 10:26:34

Have you given any consideration to finding
a decent and honest bankruptcy attorney? With their help you would legally pay back monies owed without losing your home with payments made under a trustee and usually the attorney's fees would be rolled into the payback schedule.
09/4, 10:23:42

This is short. Watch it. | url
http://www.ted.com/talks/derek_sivers_keep_your_go
als_to_yourself.html
09/4, 10:23:06

Lala
Its a beautiful day here, too.
09/4, 10:21:17

no pictures of his bike
or scooter
09/4, 10:21:16

Lala
What I would love to do is to go to the Science of Mind school and become a minister and open up a science of mind chapter in my town. They don't have one for miles. I really like that philosophy and apparently they have a good training program.
09/4, 10:20:51

Such a perfect day
today in the NYC area.
09/4, 10:20:11

Lala
I wish there was one near me, I will seek one out. I have always wanted a community like that.
09/4, 10:19:36

Go find the nearest
dharma centers lala. You will make friends and learn things that can really help you in your life in a more focused way.
09/4, 10:18:55

No word on his new
ride? Or did he ship an old fav to NYC?
09/4, 10:16:41

Lala
I can write stories. I know someone named Lynn Harris, she writes for magazines and she is constantly hustling her pieces and sending emails out to her email list, which I am on via a friend, looking for first hand accounts to support her pieces. I could do something like that, but it is full time work in and of itself and I need to be able to support myself while I am doing it. Hopefully I will pass my test and I can have a life outside of work and work on my book. I think my book might attract a few readers, its about prosperity and abundance. I think I am going to use myself as a case study and show how I went from being broke to being solvent and how I used positive thinking to do it. That's why I like Balboa press, Hay HOuse has tons of books on manifestation and the law of attraction, yes the secret type stuff, but it works for me. I just have to keep believing in myself and working on my thoughts.
09/4, 10:15:32

to Lala
can you write short stories
Send it to a mag they might buy
09/4, 10:11:53

Lala to to Lala
Yes, I Could do that. Its all contingent on me passing my test.

to I will continue
I appreciate that a lot. I am very touched. Thank you very much.
09/4, 10:10:09

Lala to to Lala
I've thought about it. It would mean selling my house and I'm not really ready to do that. But I can't pay the taxes this year so I may have no choice. My friend really wants me to move to LA. I would, but I don't want to leave my pets. Whereever I go, they would have to come with. And I don't relish having a landlord again. I am hoping the village/town will work something out with me regarding my taxes and I will be able to pay them off so they don't auction my home.
09/4, 10:09:18

I will continue to keep you in my prayers
Lala, peace and rightful outcome to you.
09/4, 10:08:52

to Lala
can you work as a private care.
Someone who need someone who goes around doing stuff for them
09/4, 10:08:40

Lala to have
Yes, I am probably going to need to go to a food bank this paycheck period because I only made enough to cover my bills and I am taking money away from bills to pay for gas. Even with working I still have to do all of those things. I don't need anymore clothes, thankfully, and I do get netflix but I'm cancelling it. I go to the library all of the time for movies. Its a good idea, though, thanks for thinking of me. THe food bank only lets you go a couple of times a year. They frown on you using them on a regular basis. I get samples for my meds from doctors, I do all of the things I can to survive.
09/4, 10:07:32

to Lala
can you move from there where you can find a job?
I got debt too,lots, but i got a job and with my debts i would be fine.
Right now Im thinkong what to do
09/4, 10:06:25

Lala
So it looked like Reeves had a working birthday.
09/4, 10:05:16

have you considered
getting your food for free at a church food pantry, getting your clothes from thrift store, and watching dvd's you can borrow for free from the library?
09/4, 10:05:11

to 09/4, 09:23:49
ok
09/4, 10:03:45

Lala to thank you
Oh, its my pleasure. Thank you for thanking me. I really love the residents even if I don't love the work. I don't know anything else I can do but take this path. I need money yesterday. I can't try to make it work as a writer and starve in the mean time, I've spent my whole life trying that and it hasn't worked. All of my twenties and a good portion of my thirties I tried to be an actress and a writer and I never got anywhere and if my mom hadn't have helped me, I would have been on the street.
09/4, 10:02:34

oy
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09/4, 10:02:22

what?
ardith sell some blood?
09/4, 09:59:55

Thank you Lala for your kindness to the elderly.
Many times in places like nursing homes they are forgotten and disgarded so again thank you for your compassion. Whatever you choose to do make the choice for yourself not for others. If you take the less desired path you may turn things around enough to live but perhaps never to be truly happy in those choices.
09/4, 09:59:46

Lala to well Lala
I wish it were that simple. I would work on my book if I could do anything I wanted. But I am drowning in debt and I can't see any way to get paid to write right now. I am probably going to self publish my book with Balboa press, a divison of Hay House, my favorite spiritual book company. THey charge a few thousand and they promote it and put it on Amazon. Right now that looks like my best bet. Then if the book is successful, I own it so I make all of the money and plus a publisher or agent will think more of a writer who has already put something out, even if it is self published. At least you ahve something to show for it. SO that is what I am thinking about and I need to pay bills in the mean time so this is all I can see to do. There are no jobs where I live and I don't want to work for minimum wage.
09/4, 09:55:55

well Lala
you need think about what are you going to do.
You put so much effort on it.do you really want it
you could earn money in something you like instead of don`t earn enough for something you don`t like
09/4, 09:45:34

Lala to Oh
Yeah, plus I hate commericials and its so much work to DVR every show I want to watch. Its a pain in the butt. So I don't bother watching. Anything that is that important will come up on youtube eventually.
09/4, 09:43:45

Lala
I actually hope I work in the dementia unit tonight. I feel like they really need the help, the poor things. They are so sad, they wander around the unit not knowing what to do. You have to go round them up to get them dressed for bed and by that time they are so exhausted from circling around and around the unit that they are grateful for someone to give them some direction and put them to sleep. They are just so cute its unbelievable.
09/4, 09:42:51

Oh
I have my cable shut off too
I didn`t watch at all
Months and months with turn on, then they raise it.I just erase them
09/4, 09:41:57

Lala
No, I am just facing a cutback because they want me to pass my test. They are tired of training me. When I work as a nurse I have to be watched by an RN at all times so they have to pay two people, me and the RN to work, so its not worth it to them. THey said 'enough is enough' and that I have trained long enough so now they mostly use me as a CNA. Which sucks because its back breaking work. When I come home I am so exhausted I can barely do anything.
09/4, 09:40:21

to lala
what happen with your work as a nurse
did you leave
09/4, 09:37:30

Lala to to lala
They want the whole thing to keep my services on because I didn't pay last month. I'll be ok. I need to study for the LPN boards and the RN boards in OCtober so it will probably work out for the best. I already have my cable shut off. I don't need it as I barely watch tv. I haven't missed it at all.
09/4, 09:37:22

Lala
I have to work as a CNA. I have to do a group, which means getting about seven people ready for bed. Its tough work. I really don't relish it. But I have to eat. This paycheck I have barely anything left over to do that. I am going to be dropped by my homeowners insurance unless they show me some mercy since its my last payment.
09/4, 09:36:03

to lala
can they share it to you
you pay every month what you can afford
09/4, 09:36:00

Lala
Oh! I get it. Cute.
09/4, 09:34:46

to Lala poor
was a joke.
No funny
09/4, 09:34:13

Lala
At one o'clock I'm turning off the puter. I can't be distracted by it and posting here is a major distraction.
09/4, 09:33:24

Lala
Can I say it? I missed this place. Especially not being able to celebrate Reeves bday. Is that sad? I thought about him on his day.
09/4, 09:32:45

Lala
to Lala poor, I'm not sure I understand the question. Yes, I work 6:30-11:00. Not a lot of hours, but some extra that will sure come in handy.

to to lala
no, for some reason the computer says I have zero balance, but when I speak to the representative they say I owe 250 and that my internet should have been turned off a few days ago. I'm just taking it day to day. I can't afford 250 right now, its way out of my league. I'm paying most places I owe money 50 each to keep the dogs at bay.
09/4, 09:31:32

to lala
did they turn off last month when you didn`t pay
09/4, 09:26:14

to Lala poor
Ops need work at night
Whar are you going to do
09/4, 09:25:06

again | url
next time go there
spread the word
09/4, 09:23:49

next time | url
go there
spread the word
09/4, 09:22:20

stil lol
over the helmet and huskies pic
09/4, 09:21:26

Lala
Work told me I have to take the exam earlier than the 16th so I'm taking it the 9th. I better study if I want to pass. I'll play for a few more minutes, then I'm off.
09/4, 09:20:08

Lala
Crap, I have to work tonight. But I need the money. I be poor.
09/4, 09:19:19

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